I continue to be amused

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Registered: 12-16-2004
I continue to be amused
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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 9:51am
Ex H is just mad at me. Mad because I've quit giving into his every whim concerning our son and his crazy ideas of what i can and can not do. Every day he's threatning something. Last night he called me and told me he was going to send me the first page of a petition that he was planning on filing -- he had his buddy who supposedly graduated from law school and works at the courthouse start it, but he was going to hold off until he saw what i was going to do. Well i'm not planning on doing anyhting. As far as i'm concerned everything is OK. He was only going to send me the first page though ,so he didn't show all his cards. So i open this petition that his buddy has supposedly drafted. it's a word document, which is all good and fine, but you can see who created a word document, and who does it say it's been created by? Ex himself. I'm amused that he thinks I'm stupid enough to believe that it was created by someone "official". He doesn't even have the right date on our divorce. Amusing.
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Registered: 10-09-2003
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 8:53pm
It's nice isn't it? When you reach the point where you just don't feel like being emotional and angry over everything he does? I think I'm almost there...lol.

Katy

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Registered: 12-16-2004
Mon, 09-10-2007 - 2:45pm
It's a great feeling. He's going on and on and on .. "get an attorney, you'll need one" he constantly tells me. And I just let it go in one ear and out the other, because I know he's not going to do anything. Apparently son (who is 4) said he didn't want to come home Saturday afternoon . . . so he was ready to take me to court to get full custody, and I didn't fight or argue with him, because I know that the reality is that I have house, where he has his own room. Ex lives with his Mom in a tiny one bedroom apartment in a retirement community. Ex sleeps on the floor, when our son stays the night (one night a week) he sleeps on the couch. So I know that he'd never stand a chance of getting custody. And I've just quit getting upset. it is a great feeling.