I don't %&^%^ believe it!!
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| Wed, 02-15-2006 - 9:31am |
So I was on my way to the attorney's office this morning and my cell phone rings, it's my attorney. Apparently stbx signed all the paperwork except for the waiver that makes it so he doesn't have to appear in court. For me that means that unless he signs and faxes that paper before 9:00am today, my court date is off. My attorney also told me that she's been e-mailing him and calling and he hasn't been responding. She even e-mailed him her HOME phone number so he could call her if there was a problem, but he didn't call. Since he moved to RI I have an address, but no phone number. This morning I called his parents' number and got the answering machine (they screen all their calls) and had to leave a message. Who knows if it will get to x or not. I'm so angry right now I could scream.
Melanie

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Oh gheez....
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Oh, Melanie, that SUCKS!
Let us know if he happened to fax it in time. Just what you need....another delay.
That really does suck Melanie... Some people...
sending lots of hugs and vibes for strength and peace your way!
Julie
Thanks everyone for your kind words. I heard back from Julie (my attorney), still no response. She said she's going to get me a date for next week and be optimistic that he'll send it in time. If he doesn't though, he's being served with papers at his work. I'm starting to feel like this is some kind of cruel joke. She admitted to me that this is dragging out way way too long. I have so many reasons for this to be over with and now the newest is actually very good news that I'm going to move out of state this summer. I can't list my house or do anything as far as that goes until this is final, you know? I hate hurrying up and waiting and such a big part of me wishes I'd left him the first time he pulled the rug out from under me - so many years ago...
Melanie
Shucks!
Well, that "part of you" probably would've had regrets if this had happened years ago, too.... and once it's all resolved, you'll be able to look back and know that the pieces fell into place exactly perfectly.... well, OK... "almost".... you know what I mean :-)
My EX was motivated to get stuff done when I told
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Thanks for the reminder Karen. You are right. When I fought for my marriage all those years I felt very strongly that I was doing the right thing because even if it didnt' work out in the end I knew I tried my hardest. Yep, and x will be served at work if he doesn't sign and return the papers. It's so hard for me because I'm not in control of any of this. I feel like maybe if I could go to his apartment and hand them to him and wait for him to fill them out that it would be done. Of course, then I'd be spoon feeding him which is one of the founding reasons our relationship failed. He's honestly one of the smartest people I've ever known, but as far as living life, he's completely clueless and needs everyone to hold his hand. Sigh.... I need to get busy with my day.
Mel
Hugs, Brenda
I got an e-mail from stbx - who should have been officially X today...
He feels he should have had more notice as to when the court date was when he got the document. My attorney just said to fax it back asap. He is now blaming us because we knew the exact court date, but he wasnt' informed of the exact date until the e-mail from Julie (this was after several failed phone attempts to contact him). My thought on that is that he got the doc two weeks ago and should have signed it and sent it back. What does it matter to him what date I'm in court- the doc is his waiver so he doesn't have to attend!!! Argh! So.... now he's reviewing the doc and signing it and faxing it in. Man oh man...
Melanie
Now... if he'd read his mail.... and he'd let you and/or your attorney know how to reach him more effectively... none of this would've happened.
I mean.... when he got the mail, that should have been a trigger that something was getting ready to happen, and if he had questions, he certainly is capable of asking them before things pile up in his little ole lap and he puts on his victim cap.
Boo Hoo to him..... NOT!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
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