I don't know how to tell him...
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I don't know how to tell him...
| Mon, 01-08-2007 - 11:02pm |
I am not divorced or even seperated, but I am ready to leave my husband. It is a long story, and I won't go into details, he moved out for a year (he has been back for 2), we have tried to work it out, we have gone to marriage counseling, and I have come to the conclusion that I do not want to be married anymore. We are both 30, no children. He is not happy either and he knows this is coming, but I just can't say it. I will always love him, and he will always have a special place in my heart, but we got married young, and we have changed alot. We have grown apart. I just do not want to hurt him, I never expected this to happen. We have talked about divorce, when I tell him it will not be a surprise, but I know he will be hurt. I know there is no nice way to say, "I want a divorce," but I feel like I am a terrible person for wanting this and hurting him. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?

I would try to sit down over coffee or something andmake it a special get together to discuss the issues. If one person feels a real need to hang onto the relationship perhaps you could try a separation to start then re group and see how you feel . It may give him more time to get use to the idea.
good luck and you gotta do what you gotta do to be happy. Some people should never be married to each other. We just never think about compatibility when we choose a mate do we? LOL
good luck
Well, instead of saying "I want a divorce."
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~