I don't know what to think...it's over.

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Registered: 02-04-2006
I don't know what to think...it's over.
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Wed, 07-23-2008 - 7:33pm

About an hour ago after months (maybe a year) of asking, begging, pleading, crying, nagging and trying everything to get him to

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Registered: 04-05-2008

It's just over


Yep...just like that. I too did the begging, pleading, crying etc. So humiliating. My STBX led me to believe he was having a breakdown. I even took him to the doctors..AT HIS REQUEST mind you.....to get help. All the while he's really been fantasing about someone else. Mine didn't even have the balls to tell me the truth for months. I was just plotting along thinking he's had a breakdown. Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that the WHOLE TIME my or should I say...thing....I married....was NEVER interested in me. He used me to escape loneliness, depression and finanical hardship.


He fired no warning shot. Right up until the day he left (the first time...he couldn't bare to leave me so came back) he was in love with me... SO HE TOLD ME

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Registered: 03-19-2003

Hey... how are you?


I'm so sorry that things got to this point... it is devastating.


We're here with ya!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~