I feel left behind

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Registered: 04-05-2008
I feel left behind
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Sat, 04-05-2008 - 11:26am
I felt like my husband was the perfect man, I thought he was my soulmate. We were married for only two years and the last year was spent with me in "marriage" counseling by myself because he refused to go after the marrriage counselor told him he had no empathy and the way he was behaving with other women was inapprpriate. I am sitting here in en empty house that I no longer want to live in, in a city that we moved to- to be closer to his job (in a small town that I know knowone) and I am angry. He moved out, into a house with a girl, with friends close by and has seemed to happily move on while I feel stuck holding the bag- forced to get roommates to help pay the mortgage, unhappy and grieving. I am going through boxes to prepare for roommates and seeing years of pictures, wedding pictures- do I throw them all away- they are sitting in the garbage now. I have held on to the possibility that God would intervene and somehow
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Registered: 10-25-2006
Sat, 04-05-2008 - 12:40pm

Happy,


If I could reach through the internet and hug you, I would.


Separation and Divorce sucks. Period.


How sad

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Sun, 04-06-2008 - 8:03pm

Me too. My situation is completely different than yours (H is an alcoholic--it was time for him to go and us to end this), but I can relate. I'm at home, with the children, with the house, with the bills, with a full time job, etc. while he's out doing as he pleases. If I need a gallon of milk I have to drag