I finally decided to do it- now what?
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I finally decided to do it- now what?
| Tue, 01-15-2008 - 3:57pm |
My DH and I have been together for 8 years and married for about 4.
| Tue, 01-15-2008 - 3:57pm |
My DH and I have been together for 8 years and married for about 4.
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We're in counseling - again- because he wants us there.
Only now after I just told him I'm afraid this isn't going to work out he thinks we should get a different counselor.
He isn't listening to me.
He wants me to tell him what is standing between me coming back to "us".
So after he sent me an e-mail asking me what stood between me and "coming back"
WOW,
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did you live together for the full 6 months of that time?
I really think we need to start taking a serious look at our assets.
www.Kids-First.com
The problem is that if I could flip the switch and love him again and want this relationship then yes I'd want it because we have a child together and that "family" is what I had wanted.
I just wasn't prepared for me to change so significantly after becoming a mom.
I can so relate to all of these post, and I feel for you!
I hate giving any credit to "balls".
I understand what you are saying about the sex thing...it is no longer for us either, and it was a HUGE part of our relationship-at least from his point of view.
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