I finally did it

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Registered: 02-21-2007
I finally did it
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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 10:47pm

I finally went to the lawyer and filed the papers. He had no idea that I was at that point. I went the lawyer last week with "his" papers and there were several things in them that were wrong. My lawyer looked at me and said You are no closer to a divorce today than you were when you came to see me in Feb. So I picked myself up and filed my papers. Now he is MAD, he is threatening me at every turn and even talks about joint custody ( in my opinion, he only wants it so he doesnt have to pay as much child support). He is threatening my parents (who are taking care of us), and to do whatever it takes to make me miserable. My only hope is that he will realize that the only people who are getting hurt are the kids


Shopgirl




Edited 9/12/2007 2:34 pm ET by shopgirlmom
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 11:35pm

Ya know... if he can be a "big boy" and parent his children in an appropriate and positive way, then him having "joint custody" with liberal visitation would be a good thing.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~