I FINALLY did something about this......

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Registered: 06-17-2004
I FINALLY did something about this......
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Mon, 10-17-2005 - 6:15pm
Yep, I finally grew some b@lls (for lack of a better term...ovaries just isn't quite as catchy lol )!!! I have been keeping the statements from our joint checking account. I no longer use it, I have my own at another bank that he cannot
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Registered: 08-16-2005
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 7:31pm
WOW good for you!! Im thinking on doing the exact same thing...STBX closed our joint account and opened up one of his own grrrr...anyways i have his debit account number for which i found by snooping ;) and i think im gonna do some online bill paying with it...he hasnt paid me a dime and is refusing to leave here until the D is final...i am barely making the bills as it is...i say thank you for the great idea!! Take care..oh and congrats on the losing weight!! I too am down 15 lbs since this whole D process started ;)
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 4:39am
Ah! Releif! lol

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 10:33am

Good for you!


WTG!


Your name is on the account, that money is YOURS too........ screw him!


Hugs,


Angelena















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Registered: 06-11-2004
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 11:08am

LOL, Good for you girl. Just make sure you have the legal right to do it and as long as you wont get in any trouble, $hit, go on a shopping spree. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Glad your getting a little gratification. Score one for the women.

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Registered: 10-11-2005
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 1:41pm
Whew I'm glad you didn't let him get away with that! Good for you! You're totally in the right....also from the way you describe him, I highly doubt he'll actually get his direct deposit changed so fast, so you might be able to do this for a while! Very happy for you.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 4:21pm
You're now driving the Karma Van..... I'm smiling for you!... and so glad that your attorney has blessed this.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 10:25am
Good for you Girl! I think our attorneys must be twins because mine told me a similar thing about opening a credit card before the divorce and I did exactly that. Also, she told me to get my own account and clean out the joint before he did. Sounds like we have great attorneys.
Good luck,
Lisa
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Registered: 10-17-2003
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 8:32pm

good for you. my therapist was just saying the other day, when i was going on about how i was worried how stbx would pay his own bills once cs was taken out, that men always say 'she's not getting anything!" and women always say, 'oh, but will he be all right?'

Good for you, sweetie! Go pay some bills!

kristin

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 8:42pm
I did the SAME THING!!! I told my therapist that I was worried about how he would get by if he was paying me the CS I needed and that the state required. She said, "That is NOT your problem! You worry about you and
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