Welllllllllllllllllll, see we have this thing called a heart.... I guess it's a curse!
We all go through this. I have the same problem. XH calls me and says, I can't pay because X,Y & Z, I believe him.... feel sorry for him... all of those things.
It stinks, but atleast we still know we are people with hearts :)
Can I just say that I admire the way you have handeled everything? Your financial decisions are the most level headed, admirable, smooth decisions I have ever seen in a divorce situation
Welllllllllllllllllll, see we have this thing called a heart.... I guess it's a curse!
We all go through this. I have the same problem. XH calls me and says, I can't pay because X,Y & Z, I believe him.... feel sorry for him... all of those things.
It stinks, but atleast we still know we are people with hearts :)
Hugs,
Angelena
Thanks so much
Can I just say that I admire the way you have handeled everything? Your financial decisions are the most level headed, admirable, smooth decisions I have ever seen in a divorce situation
"Maybe having it taken directly out, & paying it consistently, will make him see how much it is costing him every week"
I think that would be a good thing. He does need to start getting used to this. He's an adult and a father. He can take it.
LOL, "he can take it".