I hate GUILT !!! .......

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Registered: 03-15-2004
I hate GUILT !!! .......
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Mon, 06-06-2005 - 9:00pm

STBX

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Tue, 06-07-2005 - 12:18pm

Welllllllllllllllllll, see we have this thing called a heart.... I guess it's a curse!


We all go through this. I have the same problem. XH calls me and says, I can't pay because X,Y & Z, I believe him.... feel sorry for him... all of those things.


It stinks, but atleast we still know we are people with hearts :)


Hugs,


Angelena

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 9:47am

Thanks so much

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 10:00am

Can I just say that I admire the way you have handeled everything? Your financial decisions are the most level headed, admirable, smooth decisions I have ever seen in a divorce situation


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 5:29pm

"Maybe having it taken directly out, & paying it consistently, will make him see how much it is costing him every week"

I think that would be a good thing. He does need to start getting used to this. He's an adult and a father. He can take it.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 5:43pm

LOL, "he can take it".

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