I hate stbx today

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Registered: 05-05-2005
I hate stbx today
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Wed, 02-14-2007 - 9:27pm
I have been doing really good. I thought I had gotten over it. Last night dd was upset and asked to call stbx. He would not answer. Then I had to call him late to see if he gave ds his meds earlier when they went to the doctor. He said something about his gf which upset me. Then today I desperately needed him to sign a form. I know he kept sending me to voice mail. When I finally met up with him he was talking to gf and saying things like "I love you" "your so great." Right there in front of me. When he walked off that I just want to run him down thought went through my head. On top of that I am turning 27 tomorrow. I really want to sleep through it.

 

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Registered: 11-08-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 4:20am

You're only just now turning 27, you've got 4 beautiful children and your H is standing in front of you telling his new GF that he loves her. I wish I could run him down for you.

I'm only new here and don't know your story but I know you deserve better than THAT!!!

I hope you have a lovely birthday. Do something extra special for yourself even if that is to stay in bed all day {{big hugs}}

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Registered: 06-03-2003
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 9:10am
What a slimy little pig!!! That is such a cheap shot on his part. Just look on with disgust and know how much better you have the opportunity to do, he is doing that with the sole intention of causing you pain. I commend you for not running him down, that took amazing control.
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Registered: 09-01-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 11:03am

Happy Birthday Gal! You are very young (I am an entire decade older!) You are probably not even one third of the way through your life yet. You have a lot of good times and fun living to do. Do not let him get to you - he is trying to get a rise out of you. You know that you do not want him. You have already "been there, done that". Feel sorry for the GF.... you know what's in store for her....

Rose ( PS - giving your children and yourself a chance at a better life is an amazing birthday present!)

Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 05-06-2003
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 3:39pm
Jennifer I'm sorry you had a
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