I Have No Idea What To Do???

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Registered: 10-05-2007
I Have No Idea What To Do???
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Fri, 10-05-2007 - 8:49pm

Well my husband and I are at the end of finalizing our Divorce. We were only married 2 1/2 yrs. We do have

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Registered: 09-03-2004
Fri, 10-05-2007 - 11:18pm

Just my suggestion....but

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Sun, 10-07-2007 - 6:58am

Laura,


Hi. I highly recommend marriage counseling BEFORE you live together or make any other plans. A marriage counselor can give you the objectivity you need

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 10-07-2007 - 12:03pm
I have to agree with the advice you have been given. Good counseling giving you the right tools is a must. Your spouses cooperation or efforts will speak volumes. I have a hard time understanding why after years of marriage my STBX would not go through counseling.(Not even discuss anything with me). Sometimes I think he just thought it was easier( for him of course and the OW)