I have to share this with someone
Find a Conversation
I have to share this with someone
| Fri, 08-31-2007 - 8:05pm |
I knew my stbx was going to my son's house to visit. Nothing was said about the OW going with him. I got a call from my h's phone just a while ago but no one answered when I said Hello. So I held on and listened. I COULD HEAR EVERYONE TALKING> YES I HEARD HIM ASK MY GRANDSON IF HE REMEMBERED THE OW and called her by name. I kept listening. Said hello a few times but got no answer. I think the OW called from my stbx's phone deliberately to let me know she was there. My son and his family only met with her publicly one other time. Maybe my stbx called. I really do not know. So am I nuts for thinking about this. There was a time when I may have ranted and raved over it. It does bother me. So I wanted to tell someone. Why would either of them want to do that(to me) I have not talked with my stbx for a long time. I do not think he would pick there arrival with his OW to call me. I kind of feel numb with some hurt. Totally wrong for them to do that. What is the point.

Ok, some people are really twisted and might really set you up. Otoh, my stbx periodically wears his cell phone in such a way that he bumps it and it calls the last number called. I get to hear the sound of him walking around because he has no idea the phone dialed. I hang up once I realize what has happened.
Any chance it was something like that?
Just a thought.
M
In the past the OW has deliberately done things to upset me. She wrote me a long email once about there life and went as far as to say they had a baby. At that time my H said there was NO baby , but he also did not acknowledge that the email was bizarre. Or that anything was wrong with her having done that......No wonder I feel NUTS.