I just learned yesterday.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2008
I just learned yesterday.
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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 1:10am

I never posted before and hate that this is now the topic that is appropriate.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2008
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 8:40pm
So sorry he's brought this on you. I think you hit the nail on the head when you wrote, "The only thing he accomplished by telling me about the other woman and how "honorable" they planned to behave, was to assuage his own guilty conscience." They have a way of making it "right" or "OK" in their minds...turds! It sounds like you're still in shock and I can understand why. Yes, you will move on, but give yourself time to grieve also. GL and feel free to post and share any time. We're good listeners who understand.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2008
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 1:35am

Its rapidly deteriorating.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 11:26am

Good for you for standing up for yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2008
Tue, 07-15-2008 - 12:55am

I really feel for you.