I just want this week to end...

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-23-2003
I just want this week to end...
1
Fri, 11-10-2006 - 11:02am

And I want next week to be better. We had the big fight last weekend (now I do not talk to anyone else) , then Monday he read my journal (now I no longer write my thoughts), Tuesday he looks into my phone and goes through my pictures and questions me on one pic my DD took (my kids are always taking pics with my phone), I was making a kissy face, it was cute, she saved it. What gets to me is that he sent me a text message to ask me about it from the bedroom, he did not ask me face to face. That made me mad, so I marched back to the bedroom and told him, first I was mad that he did not have the you know what to ask me to my face. Then he says he wanted to know why I did not send him the pic, I don't send pics as I don't want to pay for them. I have sent one to DS at College that is it! Then I told him I stopped talking to my freind all together, he asks why did I do that, to prove to him that the freind is not the one ruining our marraige to which he states he never said that. Now he is being nice all of a sudden, and that I cannot take. You can't treat me like crap, question every move I make, treat me like I am constantly doing something wrong. I have asked repeatedly for him to go to therapy to which he usually says no. Now he has been saying he and the EAP Counselor are playing phone tag.

I stayd for years because of the kids which I know is wrong. I stayed through all of the lies, through his nights out, through his sleeping with my best friend...I feel more lost now than I ever have and every effort to try and save some money does not work.

Thanks for listening again...

K...

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 12:19am

I'm sending you some vibes for a better week!!!!


Hang in there~ he's a total jerk!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~