I know this is stupid, but....

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2006
I know this is stupid, but....
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Tue, 10-23-2007 - 4:00pm
I am so terribly torn about what is going on in my life now.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2006
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 11:15am

Life is too short to live in the past. I know what you are going through. It is hard to let go of ANYTHING you believed in for so long and put your heart and soul into. The only way to truly move on is to let go of the past. You need to do it for both you and your soon to be ex.


You HAVE to tell him. He'd WANT to know the truth. You will be a better person for telling him. Of course it will

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2006
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 11:38am
Thanks so much for the response.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2006
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 12:11pm

What is important here is that he understands it is over

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2003
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 2:41pm

Stop seeing this other person immediately.


Whatever you feel for this other person is completely atrificial


If you are done with your husband, end your marriage, complete the divorce, and then get into counceling to understand what happened in your first marriage.


About two years AFTER the date of your divorce, start dating again -- then you can be sure its a real relationship.