I miss my friend.....

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Registered: 08-02-2007
I miss my friend.....
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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 2:15pm
So I finally posted my story yesterday, and thanks to those who respond with support.
I am sitting at work here all alone in a small office. Of course, I am still an emotional wreck, but one thing that I just realized is that I miss the friendship that I had with my husband. We don't speak at all anymore. I have no idea what he does on a day to day basis (I assume he talks to the OW). We used to share everything. He used to tell me about his day at work, his likes/dislikes, talk about the children, friends, etc. just sharing conversation. I miss that, and him. I feel so alone.
I have kept rather busy, and I do have a good support system, but it does not replace what I have lost. When does it get easier??????????????????????????/
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Registered: 06-29-2007
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 8:17pm

I understand exactly what you are going through...my H has been gone for over 2 months now. I miss him so much, it seems like everything reminds me of him or our marriage. I wish I knew when it would get better. I am sending out hugs and prayers for you...

C

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Registered: 02-23-2007
Sat, 08-04-2007 - 1:09am

I am so sorry you are missing him but it is totally natural. I hated hearing this when it was all fresh for me: time is the only thing that will make it better. You need more distance (in time). Right now you are mourning the relationship.

I guess time isn't the only thing, friends and family help. You are right to keep yourself busy. Fill your life with other people.

It will get easier and better. I wouldn't have believed it in the beginning but it is true.

Hugs to you