I realize HE Must be Miserable.
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| Fri, 06-17-2005 - 3:48pm |
You know I keep allowing my ex to get to me but for all the blaming he does saying it's me that causes all the problems, I really think it's HIM, HE'S THE MISERABLE ONE! And trying to pass it off on me. He must be unhappy within himself otherwise he wouldn't be this evil to me. He was supposed to leave at 2p.m with the baby to bring him to my job. he asked me to call him at 10 min to 2 to wake him up, fine I did. Then at 3:15 he calls obviously just waking up saying where should he drop him off, Im like what, do you know what time it is? I was taken aback, and he gets an attitude saying just tell me where to drop him off. I started yelling back. Who the heck is he talking to like that?
I just have to keep my distance because whenever I deal with there is a conflict. And it's ALWAYS MY FAULT. He thinks he can talk to me any old kinda way and I WONT ALLOW IT. And I think that's why he gets so stink with me b/c he sees I speak up when I see something out of line.
So here I go again to embark on my quest for not letting him get to me and poison me with his garbage. I gotta get ready b/c tomorrow he's picking him up in the morning and the
b!%#h gf of his will probably be with him. Im just gonna take the baby downstairs and walk away. I know it wont be easy but I Can Do it.
Thanks you guys for hearing me cry this morning.
Edited 6/17/2005 3:57 pm ET ET by luvred2004

I totally agree. I think they mirror themselves onto us. If there's something they don't like about themselves, they blame it on us. My procrastinating STBX would always blame me for us being late (excuse me... who was playing poker on the computer when he should've been getting ready?).
He's not paying child support, so I asked him to at least give me some money to buy them clothes for summer. He said he'd buy some things and give them to me. I made a list of what clothes they needed, and of course he didn't get what I asked for. When I emailed him and basically told him thanks but no thanks. He got mad at me and said he knew I wouldn't appreciate it... why do I always blame him... blah blah blah.
I asked for shorts for DD, and he got her two pairs of long pants. I asked for stuff that doesn't need to be ironed, and he got DS a long sleeve button down shirt. DS is only 3 and won't be having any business meetings that require him to wear a long sleeve button down shirt. What was he thinking?
I keep hoping a rock will fall out of the sky, hit him on the head, and knock some sense into him.
Oooh, I got a little off topic. But thanks for letting me vent.
Yeah, they are miserable and they do pass it off on us. If they would just get over it, then they could work with us so we could all be good parents to our children.