I signed papers to file....

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Registered: 03-16-2007
I signed papers to file....
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Fri, 03-23-2007 - 10:51am

My STXH wanted the divorce -- he left in September, but has still not filed. He's giving me money monthly, and we've set up a visitation schedule. He's an attorney, so of course, I've gotten an atty, who told me I might as well go ahead and file, so I signed the papers.

I would still consider a reconciliation with counseling, but XH does not want to, so I am going to go ahead and file. It's so weird because I am afraid of how he will react, and I feel like I am betraying him, even though he is the one that left. UGH. Divorce is hard!

Anyone ever feel like this? I guess I just wanted to get it out -- my atty told me I don't need to tell XH I am filing.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 11:52am

Ya know.... just don't worry about it too much.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~