I take it all back

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Registered: 02-23-2006
I take it all back
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Wed, 03-14-2007 - 9:55pm

He's not my soul mate, he's not my one true love. he's some weirdo with a cell phone who texts me, calls me, and makes me feel guilty for divorcing him.

anyone else have this same experience???

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Registered: 04-19-2006
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 10:54pm

While I don't have that exact experience, I can relate. have a dual personality on my hands.

When they go from being our soulmates and partners to people we don't even recognize, it is hard to believe at first.

Let's hang in there together!

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 10:38am
Yup. I was out with friends on Saturday night and the kiddos were with my parents. He called my cell phone 16 times and called the house 13 times (I counted the caller IDs). I refuse to answer when he displays that type of behavior.
When I finally answered his call on Sunday morning he was clueless as to my anger. I told him I feel like I am being stalked, I was embarrased with my friends, and that it is inappropriate.
His reponse? Refuses to speak to me or the kids at all about anything. Won't take calls from any of us. Full on pouting. All arrows point to a relapse. I smell trouble.
M.
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Registered: 04-19-2006
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 10:52am
Sometimes it is like having another child, isn't it? Only my kids are better behaved than he is sometimes!
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 03-16-2007 - 10:43am

Yeah... I felt pretty bad and sorry for him (even though I knew it was the best choice for me)........... until I found out that his pleas of undying love forever and ever, that he'd never be with another were all empty jabs while what he was really doing was ramping up dating the OW.... which eventually led to his marrying her.


Wow.... he sure was pathetic (and I almost believed him!).


So, go ahead.... take it back.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 02-23-2006
Fri, 03-16-2007 - 1:52pm
yep, pathetic. thats what he is.
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