I think he's trying to ruin me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2003
I think he's trying to ruin me!
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Fri, 06-29-2007 - 10:20am
So STBX had the police sent to my door yesterday. I wasn't home, they just left a card. And I called them, but the voicemail picked up and they havn't gotten back to me yet. He's the only one that would do this, I've never been in any trouble, so that has to be the only reason they came, but why? I bet he's saying something stupid like I abuse the kids or something. Why is he doing this to me?? They had to go through the front office to get in the apartment building because no one was here to buzz them in, and now the office knows I'm here and they are yelling at my sister that no one is supposed to be living here that isn't on the lease. And I have nowhere else to go....I don't know what I'm going to do. I don't want my kids to have to live in a homeless shelter. :(
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2003
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 12:28pm
I was finally able to talk to the detective, and sure enough, STBX called DCFS and claimed child abuse. So now I have to take the kids down to the police department tonight just so he can see that they are alright, which they are of course, and then hopefully that will be taken care of. This is just amazing, I can't believe he's doing this.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2003
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 5:20pm

I'm so sorry you're going through this. People can be so hurtful and crazy.

Maybe considering the circumstances you'd qualify for government housing in a women's shelter? How difficult is it for your sister to add you to her lease agreement? I'm sure people move in together all the time.

Take care of yourself. {{HUGS}}

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2006
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 6:25pm

Just sending you hugs in an impossible situation. I am sorry your poor children have to be exposed to this (police station, etc).

Hugs,

M