I think I made my decision...
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I think I made my decision...
| Sat, 09-09-2006 - 6:26pm |
I posted here a couple weeks back about how I was confused whether or not to file for divorce. I think I have found my answer after my husband just left for a vacation with his girlfriend and left his 2 very young children at home with me. I think he has been having an affair for months and everything he is doing now is confirming it for me. Anyway, my husband is being reasonable about this. He says he will agree to everything, as long as it is fair. He wants a dissolution, because he wants it over fast and doesn't want it to drag on and we end up hating each other when it's all said and done. I however, don't think I want a dissolution. I dont want this to be over in 6 weeks, I want him to feel every bit of pain he has put me through. PLus, I'm a stay at home mom, so I need all the money I can get out of him now and all the time because Im planning on finishing college. Does anyone have any advice for me? Thanks!
Kate
Kate

I guess my only advice would be to make the best decision for your kids. Right now you're hurt (I know I am), but the kids come first so whatever solution suits them best is the one you should go with. I've had my moments where I just wanted him to hurt as much as I do, but it's caused me to be a mess in front of my daughter and I don't want her to see that.
In the long run, being fair (which could mean that you are entitled to *something more*) is far better than being bitter and putting the screws out.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~