I think my ex H is on drugs......

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Registered: 11-22-2001
I think my ex H is on drugs......
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Sun, 07-10-2005 - 12:38pm

I'm hearing and seeing some weird things with him lately. He's returned to being not consistent and not showing up. I did ban him right after mothers day because he basically ignored my youngest son. This ban went on for a month...he NEVER called or requested to see them. He just took it. A month went by and he said he wanted to see jacob's game. He said "I'm sorry. I was wrong". (I dont believe he meant this though). I let him back-he came to 2 games then left again. Missed his championship game (they WON!). Missed his first tournament all star game. (We had games Tuesday-Friday last week). He came on Tues and Wed and didn't on Friday. He said he was coming here on Saturday to fix my car (needs a new battery). I said "Good. You can go watch

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 1:21pm

I'd be concerned, too!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 3:53pm
My STBX is a binge drinker and used to be really into drugs (cocaine, speed, heroine, whatever someone put in front of him). A stuffy nose was always my first sign that he'd been up to something. Of course, you said his daughter mentioned that he's drinking. That can have a major impact on his immune system. If I had to guess, I'd say that he's definatly trying to keep up with his little girlfriend; whether he's doing drugs or just drinking a lot is really anyone's guess (drinking a lot can drain a bank account a lot like drugs can, had it happen with STBX more than once). Either way, I'd say he's up to no good and it's probably better that he's not around your boys right now.
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Registered: 01-03-2004
Sun, 07-10-2005 - 11:51pm

Hi Deb,

I'm sorry your Ex sounds like he's stoned/drunk on a regular basis. Sounds like cocaine to me...stuffy nose, red eyes, and "congestion." Never tried it myself, but I know someone who did coke and that's what she looked like all the time.

You might want to describe his appearance and "symptons" to a drug counselor. SEe what they say. It would be wise to monitor your children's visits with him (if they happen) and make sure they aren't in a car with him or something.

By the way, I'm glad to see you post. You look fabulous and your boys have grown so much!

Wisdomtooth