I told him.... Now what?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2008
I told him.... Now what?
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Sat, 04-05-2008 - 9:21pm

I have written my saga here before so I won't do it again, but I had told H I wanted space to figure things out.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2008
Sat, 04-05-2008 - 10:59pm

Wow, he came home and packed a bag.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 12:49pm

Well... I think that "couples counseling" isn't always an avenue to FIX the marraige.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2008
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 3:58pm

Thank You Karen.

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Registered: 05-01-2007
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 4:11pm

I believe that when your done your done, I do not think that those feelings ever come back not a counseler, gifts or even time can make you love someone. Thats why they say litsen to your heart only your heart knows.

I feel for you I know how hard it is and the guilt we carry as mother's is unbearable my husband had an affair we have a 3 yr old and have only been together4 years but I can make myself stay its to hard to supress what your heart is trying to tell you.

In time things will fall into place just be strong this is your life..
Hugs

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2008
Tue, 04-08-2008 - 1:04pm
I've been divorced about 6 months now, and was married for 17 years.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 9:26am

Weesa-

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Registered: 03-24-2008
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 10:33pm

"I have nothing left, no explanations, no anger, I just want out."

It's okay to jump...you have wings! 

To move forward...you have to stop looking back.