First, who can you call day or night to talk to you (or your husband) when you feel so low? If you don't have someone, please call a crisis hotline from the yellow pages. Look under "crisis counseling" or "suicide hotline." It's really important neither one of you get so desparate about your situation you do something as drastic as try to end your lives.
BELIEVE ME as bad as this feels right now it's NOT PERMANENT. So breathe!
Second, I really encourage the two of you to pick up the phone and get an appointment with a marriage counselor. You need a focus point: recovery is possible but you'll need help. A qualified professional can help you
Hi Wyn.
I have been lurking around the board as I try to make my decision to stay or go.
Do you think that you have been, as you say, a "terrible wife" because you are married to the wrong person?
Wynkie,
Hi. I really encourage you to do two things:
First, who can you call day or night to talk to you (or your husband) when you feel so low? If you don't have someone, please call a crisis hotline from the yellow pages. Look under "crisis counseling" or "suicide hotline." It's really important neither one of you get so desparate about your situation you do something as drastic as try to end your lives.
BELIEVE ME as bad as this feels right now it's NOT PERMANENT. So breathe!
Second, I really encourage the two of you to pick up the phone and get an appointment with a marriage counselor. You need a focus point: recovery is possible but you'll need help. A qualified professional can help you
CL-Wisdomtooth2020