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Im a newbie.....help!!!!
| Mon, 06-16-2008 - 12:34pm |
Hi everyone,
I'm new to this site and hoping to make friends and find support and comfort. I've been separated for nearly 8mths now and its not getting any easier

I'm 15 months since STBX moved out - our divorce should be final next week - but things spiraled out of control so fast and so far I thought it would never end - one catastrophe after another - Lost my husband/lost the house/lost the dog/2 of the 4 kids had mental breakdowns and had to be hospitalized/lost my job because of the number of sick days I took to care for my kids/lost financial security/had to be a charity case at Christmas/was reduced to getting food at the food bank (where I used to volunteer - talk about humiliating!)/lost any and all faith in the justice system/lost all respect for my STBX/etc.
However, even in poverty and with two children who are very psychologically/emotionally damaged because of the divorce - I am happier than I was in the last several years of the marriage.