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im scared to death
| Thu, 11-08-2007 - 1:11pm |
ok so my hubby is verbally abusive and very negative. I have been with him almost 4 years and we have a 18 mth old daughter. I told him today i couldnt take it anymore and i wanted to seperate for a little while (not divorce!!!) i am hoping if he spends time without me he will see what he has and change his ways. i have been trying to make him change for the past 3 years and he keeps saying hes trying but it never happens. I just need advice and support. im scared to death because i feel like i just took my baby's family away from her. god i feel so guilty.
please help me
chelle in GA

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Hi Chelle.... those verbal abusers are really good at making us feel guilty (and question whether or not "it's me"... and is it "bad enough" to toss in the towel).
I hope that you took Stephanie's suggestion and visited our Recognizing & Dealing with Domestic Abuse
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~