im scared to death

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Registered: 04-04-2006
im scared to death
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Thu, 11-08-2007 - 1:11pm

ok so my hubby is verbally abusive and very negative. I have been with him almost 4 years and we have a 18 mth old daughter. I told him today i couldnt take it anymore and i wanted to seperate for a little while (not divorce!!!) i am hoping if he spends time without me he will see what he has and change his ways. i have been trying to make him change for the past 3 years and he keeps saying hes trying but it never happens. I just need advice and support. im scared to death because i feel like i just took my baby's family away from her. god i feel so guilty.

please help me

chelle in GA

Mommy to you
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Registered: 11-29-2006
Thu, 11-08-2007 - 1:24pm
(((HUGS))) and welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for what you're going through, and I think you should visit our Recognizing & Dealing with Domestic Abuse

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 4:51pm

Hi Chelle.... those verbal abusers are really good at making us feel guilty (and question whether or not "it's me"... and is it "bad enough" to toss in the towel).


I hope that you took Stephanie's suggestion and visited our Recognizing & Dealing with Domestic Abuse


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~