i'm so tired.............
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| Mon, 04-02-2007 - 10:15am |
and i am not sure how much more i can take. i am d'ing stbx because he is a drunk. he hasn't worked consistently in the past 5 years and has spent much of his time drunk on the couch. but he "loves me more than anything in the world". long story made short, i had an a with a mm. this did not cause the end of my m. stbx refuses to believe that his drinking and inability to support his family has anything to do with the cause of d. he is really off the deepend since he discovered cell phone records last weekend between xap and i.
he is calling and texting me non stop. he has been harrassing me to the point where i am paralyzed. he hasn't moved out of our home yet (i have, we live separately) and hasn't paid a bill in over 6 months. but everything is my fault. i'm scared and confused. the police cannot do anything because he hasn't threatened me with bodily harm or harmed me physically. i am not sure how much more of this i can handle.
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Edited 4/2/2007 11:55 am ET by whatabadidea

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What-how about this for a song title...
"I feel so bad since you've been gone, it almost feels like your here."
So true.
LOL
M.
hey dear...
You hang in there and don't let him control or blame you for anything. We both know the games they play and how they mess with your mind. Don't let him do this to you. You are stonger than that and you are worth so much more than you will ever get from him.
I will be praying for you on Friday. He will realize this is happening, that it is OVER and you are FINISHED with him. FOREVER.. He can't hurt you anymore, he can't make you feel guilty anymore, he has no power over you.
You are loved, you are valued, you deserve so much more. You are doing what is best for the kids and for yourself. Go in there with your head up and be strong. You can do this.
He is just a drunk and he will never change and never get better. You didn't cause it and you can't control it. He's the only one that can change anything. We both know that so don't be so hard on yourself.
Please let us know how it goes on Friday.
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