IMMEDIATE HELP NEEDED-alcoholic abuse
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| Mon, 11-20-2006 - 8:31pm |
Hello,
I am so scared right now. I really think I need to file for divorce. My husband was sober for 10 years and started "socially drinking" about 6 months ago. Obviously it's gotten worse as each day goes by because alcoholics cannot socially drink. But try to tell him that. He blames everything on me. I'm this and I'm that and I'm crazy and I'm psycho....
I don't know what to do. He uses every excuse to get out of the house to drink. He's building a house in NH and goes there every weekend w/out the kids. I have 4 kids. 8,7,5,2.
I don't work. He hides all his money. I don't know how to get any money either.
He scares me when he drinks. Terrifies me.
I won't get into all of it now...but please someone, I need support. I don't know what to do.
Right now he left because a NEIGHBOR died (she was 90 yrs old). He started crying, which he NEVER DOES, so I know he was drunk. He screamed at me because I looked at him strangely, and stormed out and now I'm terrified of him coming home. I left a msg. for him saying "This is the last straw...don't come home tonight." but I'm still frightened he will pound the door down or something.
All my kids are asleep.
I'm TERRIFIED. Nobody believes how scared I am of him. His sister just says "Just don't start with him. Talk to him in the morning". But I can't.
WHAT DO I DO? I AM SO SCARED HE'S GOING TO COME HERE....
I can't call the police because I'm scared. He hasn't done anything. But I know what he's capable of.
Should I lock him out of the house????
WHAT SHOULD I DO...my heart is pounding so hard...i'm lost. and scared.. to death...
please help me someone...
please.
Colleen

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It's good to hear from you; I'm glad that you checked in!
I do hope that you are able to talk tonight... but only under one condition--that he's not had anything to drink, period!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
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