Hi all, I am new to this board, but I have been on ivillage for a while.
If neither one of you can afford the house alone, you may have no other choice than to sell it, even if you are taking a loss--hopefully you can get enough to cover the mortgage, otherwise that would come w/ another set of problems.
Sounds like your mind is made up, as is his.
Considering the circumstances, he probably "picked" this woman because she was there & available.
How serious do you think people could be in 2 weeks?
your stbxh wanting you and him to be best friends is bs. I agree with the poster above: his serious relationship with this woman will burn out soon enough. jumping from a marriage to some else that quick often does not work.