Insensitive Jerk!

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Registered: 12-19-2001
Insensitive Jerk!
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 4:54pm

Met with my stbx today to sign our separation papers & get them witnessed & notarized.


Prior to that, and while at the bank waiting for the woman to become available I was sick to my stomach.


You know, same ol', same ol'.

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Registered: 08-15-2006
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:52pm

I get you girl! When

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Registered: 04-27-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 7:39pm

Hey Buckeye
What a day you had. Try to think of you moving onto your next life. Your family was already torn apart right, even when you were with your stbx? So hold your head up girl!! Somehow you will work out the payments (I wondered the same thing, but it's been easier than I thought!) I look forward to all the papers being signed, I kinda envy you being at that point. We are still waiting for the next court appearance which got put off (AGAIN) for August 8th now :S to sign everything. Thank goodness I am in the house on my own, just paperwork crap when it's appropriate.

Hang in there, you have been through s^%$, and are finally moving on, it's scary, but you will be ok!!! WE are here for you.
Horse

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Registered: 06-21-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 9:20pm
I'm with you there. Wish things could have turned out differently. Being alone really sucks. I'm not doing so well having to deal with being alone and having to live my own life. When I see my SBTX I am at the point where I am disgusted and repulsed just looking at him but yet a part of me just wishes I didn't feel that way and wish things would have turned out differently. Ya, I want to kill him sometimes too for all this crap I'm going through! I didn't ask for any of this and this is the hand that was dealt to me.
Phoenix Firebird 08
Phoenix Firebird 08
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Registered: 05-21-2004
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 10:01pm

i guess i am lucky that i don't have those fluttery feelings, only the knife-stabbing feelings.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 11:40am

Yeah, I was told he wouldn't "subsidize" my lifestyle with 60% of his pay for the rest of his life this week. What-ev-ah jerk. First, it's not 60% of your pay, 2nd of all they are your children and 3rd you entered into these living expenses, mortgage, etc. and cannot expect to just pick up and walk away because the marriage is through. Jerk. Oh, did I already say that?


Sorry, didn't mean to make it about me. But believe me, I still have those flutters too. But then they are usually followed by a smack by a 2x4...so I guess it all evens out ;)


Hang in there Buckeye!

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Registered: 08-17-2001
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 1:46pm

Preferably a dull butter knife, right????

~calla~

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