Insulting my Intelligence

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Registered: 07-24-2007
Insulting my Intelligence
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Tue, 08-07-2007 - 5:19pm

I honestly don't understand it!! He must think I am a moron. I get a text message from my ex last night regarding our son. He was bringing him home from football practice and text me to see if it was ok to stop for dinner. I replied OK. Next thing I know I get a text that read "baby, i am taking Chase to dinner". I new very well this was not intended for me so I replied that he should be more careful and I don't appreciate it. He then informed me it was for me and he was just kidding. WHAT?

Nutshell- Married for 9 years, one son, divorce final 02/07. My ex is remarried as of 05/07 and baby due any day. Didn't even find out about everything til 1 week before the wedding. And he had the nerve to ask me, "Are you sure we can't work things out?" I said no way!! and he did what he needed to do. Talk about a hard pill to swallow. The bad thing-he calls all the time, he wants to be in my business. He won't leave me alone. It is almost comical!!! Now---who is the moron???? I am honestly thankful everyday that I am not the one married to him and having his baby!! She is clueless.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2007
Thu, 08-09-2007 - 7:04pm
Like the cave man says on the Geico commercial "What?????" Mystbx just continues lying makes up one after the other. The morning I moved out he tried to convince me that my engagement ring was his monthers. I had the old bank book from 30 years ago (BOY was he surprised) and said "Here's a withdrawal from your bank book the day we got engaged for over $3000. He almost **** a brick. How can they remember who they told what lies to? There's another whole set for my son. Is sickening.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2007
Sat, 08-11-2007 - 3:09pm
He's a dumbass, and he realized you were the best he ever had now that your gone. Good for you to put him in his place, you can do soo much better. You go girl!!! I would change my phone number, and stop taking his calls, tell him unless it's about my child, don't bother me I am busy with my own life. The new woman will find out soon what type of man he his, if he is not already fooling around on her, and then he will soon find himself out the door once again. Sometimes it feels so good to feel free, scary, but good. I am tired of being married and alone, I can be alone on my own.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2007
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 3:43pm
I appreciate your comments. You hit the nail on the head. Not only can I do it alone-It is easier to do it alone!!!!! Update-the love child has been born. Lord help us all. I am sure I will have more to say about it later-still absorbing!!!!!!!!! Take care!

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