Interfaith Relationship Issues
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|Fri, 10-18-2013 - 1:21pm|
Me and my muslim boyfriend of 7 years recently broke up because according to him he could not accept my hindu religion. We had extensively disccused religion head on in our relationship and we continued to discussed whenever needed. We were also discussing on getting married and just a month back he purchased a house and we were discussing interiors and furnishing. A week ago he confronted that he is unable to accept by religion and brokeup.
Current situation: He did not want to move out (the lease is under my name). He says it will take around 6 months to look for a new house, so he did rather live here until the lease runs out. So we live in the same house for which I just renewed the lease (a day before breakup). Its a three BHK, two storey townhouse. He lives on the first floor and me on the second. Ground area is common. He will be getting possession of his new house after a year or more. So i am sure he wont be moving out anytime soon.
I know this is not an ideal situation. What I would like to know is does he still has feelings for me? Because I am really confused. We did not argue much or fight either and it was really a perfect relationship - up until that moment. He said he had been thinking about it lately and couldnt tell his parents he wanted to marry a hindu girl. I also did not force him to marriage and was quite content with the live-in arrangement. We both have very good jobs and are financially very secured.
Anyways, this is what really bothers me - when I asked him what was that he did not accept about my religion and he said its the reincarnation part - because he would like to be with me in Paradise (after death) :S. I am just confused right now.a
Any insight is appreacited. Thank you!