Isn't it pathetic that......
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Isn't it pathetic that......
| Wed, 01-31-2007 - 7:03pm |
I loved the post with My STBX is a moron, so....
Isn't it pathetic that my XH lies to me, his daughters, and my parents, about going on vacation (sans children) during his parenting time because he doesn't want to hear me (and these are his words) "judge him"????
He has the kids for a measly 10 days every month and he can't seem to plan his life around that.
If I still have that much power over him, he needs some intensive therapy... like with Sigmund Freud....

Calla
that was me that posted my stbx is a moron.
BUT he is. its pathetic that he wasn't always this way. i thought i could turn and leave him without remorse, but i feel sooooooooooooooo bad. he's falling apart. he needs serious mental help, but refuses. i hate for the kids to see him suffer like this. ALCOHOLISM IS TERRIBLE. My whole opinion about drinking has changed so much.
What a waste of a life. makes me want to cry.
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Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Isn't it pathetic that he'll go to great financial lengths to "get revenge" on me?
That my MIL would rather watch him slowly kill himself than help him to get over me?
That he swears he'll change to be a better man yet acts like a complete and utter pain in the patoot... manipulative, vengeful, angry, violent and suicidal... all of the reasons I left him in the first place.
Duh..... if yer gunna change... how about starting now?
*hug* I LOVED the moron post.
Try not to beat yourself up about any decisions you make about your life. We all need to remember that we have to take care of ourselves first. There's something to be said for that saying "If Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy."
Believe you me, I've had my share of remorse and guilt associated with finally walking away from a man who couldn't show me a modicum of respect. He changed drastically over the 5+ years that we've been apart..... he remarried, joined a cult-like group, became completely and utterly selfish, and is now on almost every dating website (even the ones who encourage cheating) even though he's still married and he and the wife are "working out the details of their marriage".
We can't change people.... only ourselves and our reactions to others.
~calla~ mom to rosie and gracie
oh i know prgrl
my fil hates me, has threatened to come and take my children away from me. (yeah right, like any judge in his right mind would take two children from a hardworking mother and give them to a 70 year old alcoholic)
my fil should be planning an intervention for his alcoholic son instead of blaming me for stbx's problems.
I hear ya!!
Mine is the same way AND he is late on his support because he 'can't afford it', but he has gone to 3 NASCAR Races and has gone gambling a few times!!
I just thank GOD that I'm not still there living with him!!