Is it appropriate?

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Is it appropriate?
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Thu, 05-26-2005 - 4:56pm

Hi guys,


Another question............


Recently, I found out that my mother and OW are friends. It seems that all 3 of them have gone to dinner a few times and have regular contact. This was all done behind my back and in HUGE secrecy.


Does anyone find anything wrong with this?


I would love some other opinions on this, I seem to think it is inappropriate, sort of a slap in the face.


Thanks for all your advice in advance :)


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Registered: 06-11-2004
Fri, 05-27-2005 - 12:57pm

Im still struggling with this myself. But it's becoming alot clearer now. My ex got under my skin last night and I should have known better. I posted about it. But I see that there is no way our ex's who say they have moved on and are so happy can possible be if they are still doing and saying things to us to try to upset us. They dont see us going around doing things like this to try to get at them. It shows a lot of immaturity on their part.

At some point you have to become an ADULT. Men doing decades slower than us. LOL.

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Fri, 05-27-2005 - 1:03pm

I don't think I blame OW for this one. I think it's my mom. I know it sounds crazy, but I don't think it's OW's fault. I would expect something like this from OW, not my mom, does that make sense?


Anyway, family...... well I don't have any anymore except my father who just moved to Virginia ( Im in NY ) Oh well, life goes on....


I've got lots of friends though :)


Thanks luvred...... hugs!


Angelena

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2004
Fri, 05-27-2005 - 1:19pm
No you are definitely right about expecting something like this from the ow. With it being your mom really throw me for a loop. Hang in there girl. You will get through
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 05-27-2005 - 5:19pm

Hey there... I noticed that you're confused about some of our acronyms.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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