Is it illegal to just leave with kids???
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| Mon, 03-21-2005 - 9:29pm |
It may sound like a stupid question... Well, my husband threatened that he will quit his job and come home, but he didn't. Thank God!!! (What kind of threat is that!!!)
Anyway, I am renting 3-bedroom condo, and the lease will be over this summer. Is it illegal for me to just leave here and move into some small apartment so I can have some privacy and actually can afford it without depending on his income?
He is good with kids. He tries to threat, but it's pathetic as I am going to quit my job... He thinks I am interested in someone because I am not interested in him. Well, after so many harsh words and name callings and making fun of me, how in the world am I suppose to love him? Yes, I am interested in something, which is establishing my own company.
He thinks or wants to believe that woman cannot live without a man. My goodness look at me. I am married and you might as well call me "a wife without a man," because I literally live without him. He is like a visitor. I have been living without him. I have a full-time job, full-time school, and take care of 3 kids and the house ALL by myself. I don't know a single soul here. I literally do everything on my own and I am so accustomed to living life that way.
Maybe he hates my guts as I just won't cry for nobody's help or completely go down. I don't even complain. I just do it. He even made a comment that he is not going to send me any money. Guess what, idiot husband, I am financially capable of taking care of all of my bills. I may be broke living from paycheck to paycheck, but still manageable.
Anyways, if any of you could tell me about me moving to another place with kids, please let me know. I am thinking since I have several e-mails from him which clearly states he is not going to send me any money, I am allowed to look for my own place?

you worte" I am married and you might as well call me "a wife without a man," because I literally live without him. He is like a visitor. I have been living without him."
I always say I am a single mother of 5, the oldest kid being my husband!" I know how you feel.