It is IMPOSSIBLE to talk to X ....
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It is IMPOSSIBLE to talk to X ....
| Tue, 05-08-2007 - 12:41am |
I swear, no matter HOW i approach something, it backfires.
In the past 2+ yrs we have been apart, i have let him have ANY visitation he wants.


UPDATE:
This AM when i went to pick her up, he met me outside. I said "What in the heck made you so mad about that email???" (like i was in total disbeleif & clueless, when really, i knew) - & he said "You want to take me to court". & said "no i DO NOT. I just said the "court ordered visitation" ... meaning the schedule the court OUTLINES, not to GO BACK!" & he sort of backed right down & said "Oh, i thought you wanted to go back to court to make it easier for your schedule". I told him that yeah, it may make it somewhat easier on me, but mostly its for Avereys benefit & her scheduling. He said "Ok, lets just do what you said - i will look at my schedule & let you know"
I said fine. & then, of course, if it doesnt work - then he realizes that it WILL go to the minimal ordered visitation. It will be SO much better & more stable for dd.
So, lets HOPE!
Sheesh! At least he came around sooner rather than later, but I know you're not holding your breath!
Just a thought here.... When I want my idiot XH to do something, I try really hard to leave myself out of the equation. I never say "It'll be easier for all of us" and definitely don't say "It'll be easier for me" because once something becomes convenient for ME, it becomes IMPOSSIBLE for him.
This started my morning off on a "realization" note that men are just, well, MEN. Last night, at 5:45, my boss left me voice mail asking me where something was in the lab as in "I THOUGHT we had that, but I can't find it, so I might be wrong." It's something that I use every single day and he should know darned well that we have it. No only was there a bottle in the refrigerator, there are 8 bottles still frozen in the freezer. I think men look with their eyes closed. They just think differently than we do!
~calla~ mom to rosie and gracie
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~