It just doesn't seem real

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2007
It just doesn't seem real
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Wed, 09-26-2007 - 9:13pm

We're really divorcing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2007
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 10:02pm

Hi there,


I'm glad you posted because you will find that this board is a great source of support when you're going thru the tough times.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-27-2007
Thu, 09-27-2007 - 12:52pm
I am SO with you right now. I am only a week into the 'IT'S DONE' phase and am really having a tough time managing. I am the one at the house with our 2 kids and she's at a friends house. She still gets them from school, hangs with them etc. but I am just in shock. This was my decision after it being long overdo but it still blows me away. I think of things like 'the next place we go that we ALL used to go to' and I cry. One minute I can't stop the tears and the next I can't be any more relieved that this is finally happening. So of course when that happens I think maybe the crying part has been kicked...pffffft I WISH!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-10-2007
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 1:07am
I feel the same way I knew that this was coming but I still get blindsided by the reality of it everyday. I think oh I need to ask him what he wants for dinner or oh I need to see what he needs for me to do for him to make his day easier and Bam I realize he is her responsibility now not mine. I am also selling my house and it is like a double edged sword I know that it has to be done. I cant afford it and the memories in it are so bad that I dont know if I could function if I lived there but it was OUR house and where we were supposed to grow old together. I think once I get it cleaned out and the sign is up I will be better about that. Keep your head up
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 10-01-2007 - 10:13am
LOL!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~