It really does get better (thank you to everyone on this board)

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2012
It really does get better (thank you to everyone on this board)
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Mon, 03-05-2012 - 2:56pm

Hey folks,

I'm a lurker mostly (meaning I come on this site, look around, but don't contribute).

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011

Welcome to the "My Life is Better Now" world. I was in the same situation, ex concistently cheated, I left at and happily got divorced. Was it easy? No. But is done and life is soooooooooo much better.

When you are ready, you will date again, and someday find someone special.

But, its all good from here! I tihnk its a great idea to have such a positive thread on a board taackling such a difficult topic. Bring on the happy divorced people!

Community Leader
Registered: 01-03-2004

Hi Tom!

So glad to hear you're on the road to a new life! What you now know is there is a silver-lining to divorce: The chance to make your life whatever you want it to be. Bravo for not jumping right back into a relationship. Double-bravo for getting some professional perspective. You'll be much healthier and happier when you are ready to have a new relationship on your timetable.

Peace and blessings!

Wisdomtooth2020

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2005

AMEN AMEN.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2011

The best words you will ever hear is when the judge says "I now restore you to the legal status of single". Made my day. My SO's judge told him, "Sir you are now legally divorced". Its all good!!!!