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It still bothers me
| Sun, 03-23-2008 - 6:35pm |
My soon to be ex is visiting my son and his family. I am pretty sure the other woman is with him. They have only been there together once before. Strange and cruel as it was they called me the first time to let me know. Would not say anything just let me hear them with my grandson. I know I have to let stuff like that go but them just being there together upsets me. There is a part of me that wants to scream and cry because I wish it were my husband and I there. How do you work that out so it does not emotionally hurt you? I feel like I am holding the feelings in too much.

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over againIt can take time to let go, but know that whatever you are experiencing - you are doing so for a reason & it will make you better/stronger later. The fact is, we cannot control the actions/behavior of others - nor can we judge them, even though it takes restraint ;O
If he has chosen to be w/someone else etc., there's nothing you can do about it other than to try to move on w/your own life as well.
Good luck!
Laurel
******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again