It was inevitable & I probably messed up
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It was inevitable & I probably messed up
| Sun, 01-08-2006 - 9:07pm |
shouldnt have emailed him back, but i couldnt help myself!
For the 1st time, I ran into STBX out last nite (we live in a small seaside town & we both frequent the same places when out, but he is out WAY more than I am & i have been very careful in the past to look for his car b4 going in for a drink or dinner). & it happened last nite.
I dont know what condition he was when i saw him but i am pretty sure it wouldnt have been good after the game (Yey Patriots!) b/c it was like 11:30pm. I was at Zeldas Cafe after


I think it's fine.
R~
Like Jennie, I don't know if I would have sent the email, but I love what your therapist said with the 80/20 thing...
Its funny, because since my xh lives out of state, the event you described really cannot happen... but recently, I was out to dinner with a guy friend of mine (a former friend of his actually) and he called my cell... I answered and he asked if Joey was asleep, to which I responded that I truly didn't know, because I had gone out to dinner with a friend... there were a few minutes of silence, followed by an oh... but it was one of those oh's like it was the last thing he expected to hear...
I hung up and told my friend what he had said... he summed it up perfectly... oh, so you (xh) can go out and have an affair, but your ex-wife can't go out to dinner 1 1/2 years after you've been divorced... give me a break...
UGH... xh's... don't want to live with them, can't shoot them!
Sending lots of hugs to you with your Mom... I'm glad that she was able to give you the gift that she did, showing you that life is too short, and I know she's proud of you today!
*hugs*
Julie
I think that what you said was fine.... and it is totally fine for you to go out with a friend (male or female)... and he'll just have to get over it.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~