its been a long time

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Registered: 11-09-2007
its been a long time
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Mon, 08-04-2008 - 3:44pm
my husband and i have been separated since Thanksgiving. We do communicate, mostly via text and email. We talk about moving on. I know i should and he seems to react as though he agrees but he always seems to send me mixed messages that he wants to be with me. Pretty much its driving me crazy. I can't seem to move on as long as he continues to contact me with these things. What do i tell him? I have to continue with the separation and finally on with the divorce. What sucks the most is i still am in-love with him and i'm pretty sure he feels the same way.
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 10:49am
If you are both in love, do you think there's any chance you could work out your problems if you went to marriage counselling?
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Registered: 11-09-2007
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 7:09am

not sure if we can. we tried marriage counseling. it didn't seem to work.