It's Hitting Me Now
Find a Conversation
It's Hitting Me Now
| Wed, 06-18-2008 - 4:13pm |
Things are starting to move fast now and it's sinking in that 18 years of marriage and my family is over.
| Wed, 06-18-2008 - 4:13pm |
Things are starting to move fast now and it's sinking in that 18 years of marriage and my family is over.
Take a deep breath and let it sink in. You can do this...you will find a way. The smoke is too think now but right now you are down but not over. Once you can breathe again carefully go over your financials...go from month to month and see if there are expensive that you can cut and sacrifice for now. If you can try to take off some time for work if u are working...like 2 days so you can regroup. But the best thing is to go over what you will be spending each day and month to month and if it doesnt add up take a breath and watch TV...take a shower, read a good book and come back to it b/c I promise you theres way. If you have a family who can help you out for a bit that might be good although I know it can be tough to ask.
You will be sick to ur stomach for a long time but I know from experience it gets better...keep us posted and god bless :)
you can do it.
Congrates on getting the house.
Big hugs Buckeye! I can only imagine what you're feeling. I'm sure I'll be there soon enough. I gave my attorney the "kick it up a notch" email OK last night. It's summer vacation for me now and I want to get as much done related to the divorce now that I don't have to worry about lesson plans, teaching
Thank you All for your support.
You definitely aren't a quitter if you have managed to hang in there w/ an alcoholic.