It's those unexpected moments I hate

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Registered: 07-29-2003
It's those unexpected moments I hate
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 1:31pm

When you think everything's fine and then all of a sudden...

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Sat, 08-23-2008 - 5:49pm
I can sympathize with the humiliation of living with parents, although my parents are living with me right now to help with my daughter. They are Godsends and I don't know what I'd do without them. I may have to continue living with them until I finish school which could be 2 years. I hate this. I feel like I took such a big leap backwards. I'm going to be 30 and I always thought even counted on being on my own with my own family. I'm so disappointed in all the things that would've happened that now never will. I'm constantly on the verge of tears and this nagging sadness just won't go away. When will I feel happy again? I have so much anger and disappointment for him, but the emotion that hurts the most is the love I feel for him. Through all of this, I miss him so much it hurts, just the friendship and companionship that no longer exists. How do people ever recover from this hurt? I feel like I'm going to be wounded forever.
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Registered: 08-11-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 6:57am
Your mother is a wise woman.

Emom13

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Registered: 07-30-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 9:26am

Thank you for the article. It was a great read. This is what i'm working on with my life coach. The man I thought was the man I married is no longer here. He is gone. I'm going through the mourning stages of grief.


I'm 45 next week, married 24.5 years and feel like i'm going backwards in life... this was not suppose to happen... Lean on your parent, although mine are older, they are very supportive and call me at least twice a day. sometimes i'm ok.. other times i'm hysterical and they walk me through it.


Sadly we all have to feel it before we can heal..but in the end we will all be standing and be better off in a happier life...


Lynn

"This new  path I must lead will lead me to europhoria"

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Sun, 08-24-2008 - 12:46pm

Thanks for the article Unity,

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Mon, 08-25-2008 - 1:44pm

I completely agree!

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Registered: 08-12-2008
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 2:51pm
Excellent article. I love the sentence Life does not end when a relationship ends. That is so perfect - I think I may add that sentence to my daily meditation.