I've lost that loving feeling
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| Thu, 07-05-2007 - 11:18am |
Can anyone help? (M 18 yrs , 2 kids)
I just want to feel that love for DH, like I used to.
This year I realized how messed up our relationship was-just no closeness
and when I wole up from that, I spoke up and said-we should live apart
for a while. Well to my surprise he said -no way, what a bad idea.
So I said well, lets go to MC- and we have, DH is doing everything he can
for me, I keep saying-you just dont get it- I want to have fun and feel
romantic- but I don't want to be the one with all the "fun" ideas- I need
him to be spontaneous and come up with his own ideas (otherwise I might as
well date myself)-
DH is doing all he can, but it's like once I let those negative feelings out-
I don't know how to get past them- So I see him trying and his sadness, and I
want to be that person who used to adore him --I'm crying now :(
But I continue to feel all this bad ugly resentment-
I want to be happy and optimistic again- I used to always see the good side
of everything-
Maybe I feel my choices have been taken away?
I just want to know if I can feel that Love for DH again-Is it possible?
TIA
-eve
