January Roll Call

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Registered: 03-26-2003
January Roll Call
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Tue, 01-09-2007 - 9:13pm

Hey everyone... there are a bunch of new faces around here and we haven't done a roll call in a while, so please, sign on in with the information you feel comfortable sharing, such as name and location, as well as a bit about your situation...

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2007
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 9:49am

Thanks, I will let you know how it goes.

Becka

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2006
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 4:11pm

I think I came to the board in Oct. When my H said he wanted to think about divorce (instead of Retrouvaille). Married 9+ years, two dds (4 and 6), sahm, live in expensive Virginia.

By Dec. 11th (in counseling) he declared himself done with the marriage.

Met with one mediator; meeting another in a week or so. Interviewed two lawyers (liked one, but she now has cancer and didn't like the other). Meeting with a child psychologist to develop a parenting plan.

Think there is a 3rd shoe that still needs to drop (not sure who or what, but I think he is hiding something; *know* he has been hiding one thing for sure, which I found out about).

Dying inside and very worried about my kids.

So glad you all are here!!!

M

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2005
Sun, 01-14-2007 - 3:03pm

Hi

Been separated since November 2004, in a small apartment with two sons since September 2005. Was married since 1982. Marriage had its ups and down, both at fault but stbx had an A and decided OW was more appealing than saving 22 year marriage. He isn't with her now, broke up a year ago boxing day, he is now onto another woman. For what ever reason this has brought up the old feelings from the affair. I know i didn't deal with things correctly back then and now the old feelings are resurfacing. Having a hard time with the fact that he is moving on with seemingly no regret, remorse etc. Have been on I-village on betrayed spouses support board since separation and now contemplating divorce and am reaching out here. Live in Ontario Canada and i am 46 years old, sons are 20 and 15.

Denise

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-15-2007
Mon, 01-15-2007 - 11:09pm

I like what you all have to say, maybe I can do this after all.

Hi...I am new here. My name is Anne. I have three kids. I look forward to filing for a divorce shortly. I posted a topic, franticly and in bad grammar, lol. I need help. I hope I am doing the right thing. I am glad I found this support however and if anyone would like to talk or needs someone to just "dump" on I am here for you too!

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