Just a comment here......

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2005
Just a comment here......
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Thu, 03-31-2005 - 11:47pm
Hey, guys - just some comments. No need to respond. First off, you guys are a great support group. When I posted here I received quick responses, and good ones at that. I read about other peoples' situations and how tough it is to get a divorce. Sometimes I look at my husband and he"ll say something funny, and I"ll think maybe it's not so bad, and I can ride the tough times out. But then, in one swift shot, he"ll say something so condescending, so not right, that I think if I stay with him I will completely hate him. I can't figure out if he truly doesn't know what he's saying or if he thinks he's witty or something. The sarcasm runs in his family. It's so freakin' annoying. I know that if I stay with him, I might become a bitter woman. And I don't want that to happen. It"ll be from all that repression of not telling him off. I used to fight with him a lot about this in the beginning, but then I found it it's not worth it. It's not worth it to fight with him about this all the time. But repressing this feels like it's going to kill me. Anyway, as tough as divorce is - for me it"ll definitely be worth it. Because his sarcasm is driving a wedge between us.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 3:41pm
I totally agree.... this is a wonderful place..... and that bitterness will build and build until you don't like yourself very much.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~