Just Filed - Should I Tell?

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Registered: 03-10-2008
Just Filed - Should I Tell?
Thu, 06-05-2008 - 3:08pm

Just trying to figure out in my mind what to do and maybe someone can offer suggestions.


H had A last year..I still love him but he doesn't love me, so it's pretty much over. I filed for D and now I'm wondering whether or not to tell the husband of his previous A (which he claims is over but my gut says no) whether or not that I filed. Do I call and tell him I have filed for D. I still have a feeling deep down inside, although he has said it is over and there is no one else that it isn't over yet.