Just Filed...help

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2003
Just Filed...help
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Tue, 11-14-2006 - 3:10pm
I filed last week and gave the papers to my husband last night. His reaction? He threw them and told me to shove them up my ass...then hit the book I was reading out of my hand 3 times in a row. Now I have to serve him with a Sheriff. In the meantime, I have to live in the same house with him and the kids and he won't give me the credit card to go to the grocery store. This is going to suck!
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2005
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 9:37pm

He is obviously an idiot. You really need to see your lawyer and get an order for support. He must keep the household status quo when he is living with you. Nothing is allowed to change.

This is my second time around with my husband. This time I want him out. Living in the same house is torture. I was always worried he would tape me or tap my phone or something.

you need to see your lawyer right away. He is not allowed to do this.

Good luck!!

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Registered: 07-21-2006
Wed, 11-15-2006 - 7:39am
Did you expect him to say "Thankyou"? The fact that he threw the papers on the floor does not mean that they were not served. From here on out expect things to be rough. Emotions are on high alert. My ex who never called me a name during 25 years of marriage started using the B word and worse. We both wanted the divorce but that didn't matter. If I were you I wouldn't expect him to hand over the charge card anymore, get your own. The kids will be fed I would think. Try to keep things in perspective.