Just Found Out!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2008
Just Found Out!
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Wed, 07-23-2008 - 10:59am

Good Morning All,

Briefly, I just found out over the weekend that my husband of 19 years has been having an affair for "a few months". There are two many feelings and emotions to even begin to write more..it would take up the whole page! We have two sons, 13 and 15.

I wanted to look for a place to discuss and learn, and came upon your site. I have read a few posts, not many yet, but can already tell that you are a warm and supportive group.

I don't want to ask questions yet for I want to read through what is here and not be repetitive.

But, I wanted to introduce myself (I am Paige) and get the ball rolling. Thank you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2008
In reply to: paige407
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 4:45pm

Hi Paige. Just wanted to let you know how sorry I am that you are here. Just to let you know that you don't have to feel like you are being repetitive. Every situation is different and it also helps just to get things out even if you don't need advice. You might also try the message board of "Betrayed Spouses" and "Life After Betrayal".

My STBX had an EA with a woman that he works with....or at least that's all he says it is, and I know how gut retching that can feel. We are all here for you and if you ever need to vent, talk, cry, have a pity party....ect, just know that you are safe here and we will support you in any way we can.

Much hugs,
Claudia

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2008
In reply to: paige407
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 7:25pm

Thank you! I had visited the Betrayed Spouses board and looked around. I started to post, but was interrupted. I wasn't sure if people posted on both boards, or mainly stuck to one.

Thank you again for your kind words and I am looking for time to be able to get on here more to learn, reach out, and all of those things! There is a lot of information on here as well as caring people ~ that was obvious from that start.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: paige407
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 11:19pm

Hi Paige!


Jump on in here... and dont' be afraid to ASK whatever is on your mind.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2008
In reply to: paige407
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 11:18pm

Boy do I know the feeling.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2008
In reply to: paige407
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 6:12pm

I just wanted you to know I feel for you and I am in a similar boat.