Just a little down

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Just a little down
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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 12:50pm

Just feeling a little down.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: lesac3
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 1:52pm

When I was married to my ex, he never wanted to take a cruise since he said he would feel claustrophobic being stuck on a boat,etc.

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Registered: 08-17-2001
In reply to: lesac3
Wed, 07-02-2008 - 8:07am

Ladies, I think this is pretty common! My XH was a homebody when we were married, though he did rock climb and play paintball with his friends, but nothing with me. I love the beach and would go there every chance I got with friends or just the girls, but he only went the summer before we separated because I rented a house for a week and he didn't want to be away from the girls. (He balked about ALL THE TIME he was taking off work .... a week.... complained about the sun and the sand, blah blah blah).

After we separated, he took scuba lessons and traveled all over the place with NW#2. They divorced, and next week, he and NW#3 are getting married ON THE BEACH.

The way I figure it, he's still in a honeymoon phase and is willing to do anything for the new woman.

These guys are hilarious..... do they think we're not on to them and that they'll be able to hide the way they are forever????

~calla~

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie